| Location | Seattle,washington |
| Age | 49 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 18/02/1960 |
| Date of Death | 05/05/2009 |
| Visitors | 244 since 26/07/2009 |
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brad...I am saying goodbye in the only way I know how and i want to thank you for all of the 12 and half years we had together.I miss you very much,but i miss go on and I put your ashes in the urn at the cemetery Friday.It is called a Wishing Well and you will like it.It is only has 2 other people and you wont be so crowded.Brad...why? Why did you do this? I am alone at 61 and believe me...it aint right.The cats miss you.Kramer keeps me up all night and everyone misses the way that you made spaghetti.You were the most nicest and most postive and exciting person that I have known in my life and to see you gone at 49 makes me wonder if we could have had more time..goodbye,honey..until we meet again.
it was 20 month on the 22nd of January 2011
Brad.it has been 20 months.Every day I cry.Every day I wonder the reason why.I am looking for a job.They are hard to come by.But I will always remember your smile when I came home from work.Kramer haas been a little stinky.She is the only cat now and she loves it.When i did my part time work at Xmas ...she did not like the fact that she was all alone and took a roll of toilet paper and scattered it all over the kitchen?Do you remember when she did this as a young kitten? I started to laugh because it was hilarious to see.Laughter has been hard for me.I miss your laugh.I miss the way you imiated Kramer and wish you were here to do it again.The weather here has been cold and so has the house.I had to put the heat on and Kramer wont go out.She is sound asleep now and i can feel her fur.She looks for you everyday and I still hear her purr.Tooey is buried in the back yard.She was sick for quite some time but little Tooey was our friend and a good friend of mine.What a cat! I miss Tooey also.Nothing is the same without you.Why did you do it? I am 63 now and I am alone and it sucks.And I am sorry if i hurt you.I wish you here in my arms again and when I pass i will go to Rainbow Bridge and all of us will be together again and then all of these tears will subside.
brad--it will be 15 months on the 22nd and I am lonely
Brad--the other day I heard an old Beatles tune.It was PS I LOVE YOU and it was sung by Paul Mccartney and he sang this in the early 1960s when you still were little.This was my first song that I heard about The Beatles and this song was playing when we met.Do you remember? Do you remember coming into the coffeehouse with Mike? I do and you were so handsome then.You didnt have to do it.Why Brad? I am 62 now and I am alone.I still havent found a job and I doubt if I will ever work again.I may lose the house and TOOEY DIED ON July 20th,2010.She was sick for quite some time and she died on my bed and in my arms.She was 11 years old and she is buried in the yard that she loved so.The vet told me that Tooey had a stroke and there was nothing that they could do for her.She was in a great deal of pain and she died knowing that she was loved and she had a big smile on her pretty gray cat face.I know that she saw you and I know that the both of you are in Rainbow Bridge and I hope to see you,Tooey and Tuffy real soon.I love you,Brad and I am beimg good until we meet again.Love Bridget.
your 50th birthday...2/18/2010---why?
Bradley.....the Guns N Roses song "Dont Cry" was playing as i am writing this tribute to you.Today you would have been 50 and here I am at 62 and I am widowed and alone.I still havent found a job and the funds are getting strained.But I remember you told me that good things will come if I am patient for them.And dear..........I have written a poem...here it is.
Snow by Bridget Elia ( an original poem)
Every winter I kiss the earth.I fall from the sky like seattle rain.I fall on
the olde concrete ground and driveways under me,the ground gets cold.
It gets icy and slippery.I grant people the day off from work and school.
I give people time to talk to one another.
\ I am snow.
The snow did not come to seattle this year,Bradley.It stayed up in the
mountains.You should have seen the pass.And remember snow.For I do
remember all of our times together and the talks that we had.
Now I have a question....why Brad? Why did you do it?
I am like snow...I am falling and I am alone.
8 months and still grieving for you ,brad
brad it will be 8 months and i am still grieving.Right now I am in the process of looking for a job.You left me with limited funds and i am not going to lose the house that I have been in for almost 3 years.The cats are simply now and so are you.I hope that your pain is gone and my pain is just beginning and tomorrow and today and tomorrow I will cry.I will cry for you again brad and I will never forget you.You were the love of my life and no man will or can replace you.I miss you my Bubba and big bear of a construction worker.Rest in peace,honey.I love you.
why brad
brad..it is thanksgiving and i am alone without yuo.Why Brad? Why didnt you tell me that you were hurting.I am hurting also.I love you and always will.You were my best friend and noone can take your place.i do wish you were here to make the coffee.Mine stinks.My cooking stinks..but the house looks good and i clean it every day.You are no over the rainbow.You can see and really see me.How do I look? Brad...I didnt say goodbye to you..so here it is ...goodbye,Brad.I will always miss you and love you and please let me know if you are there.
Thank You for 12 and half years.by bridget
Brad...our time together is over.Thanks for the good and not so good 12 and half years.We had our good times and one of the best was when we went dancing and you did the swim.Do you remember? I dont think you can now.I will always remember your words of wisdom to me.I will always remember how you got me that money and how you showed me not to be pushed around and because of this...when it comes to certain things...I am kind of smart.As your favorite Judge Judy states...:They dont keep me because I am beautiful...they keep me because I am smart and smart is what you have made me and for this I am so grateful.I love you now and forever.4 ever.Brad.4 ever.
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